I don’t trust people with a lot of things. Like, I get really panicky when I’m not in control of social situations. I get physically sick, and I don’t really trust people to… follow through with it all. I just have so many bad experiences with people being shitty that not being in control is hard.
I like to say that it’s not affected me, but way too often it just makes me unable to handle last-minute plans/changes (to social things).
Think about how you treat other, people. Excluding people too much… it hurts. A lot. Especially when they’ve been bullied partially by being excluded from everything. It just keeps the insecurities alive and well.